tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401055091892091482.post2788603611710215093..comments2023-07-27T06:15:34.078-07:00Comments on INSIDE - My Life as a Gay Mormon: I Broke The Rules Of My DisfellowshippmentAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11814495288142840602noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401055091892091482.post-12050752594558883312015-08-22T12:51:42.716-07:002015-08-22T12:51:42.716-07:00Jacob, thanks for sharing your thoughts. There is ...Jacob, thanks for sharing your thoughts. There is a lot there to unpack, but let me address two things you brought up. <br /><br />First, I agree that I shouldn't be barred from sustain leaders or callings in the church. You are right that no one is without sin, thus I should have that same right. However, because I am subject to the church's current policy, I do not sustain and have been asked not too. Whether I agree with the policy or not, I am willing to abide by the church's rules on this matter.<br /><br />Secondly, being gay is not a sickness, or a challenge. God made me this way and neither He, nor I, have any intention to change it. Being gay has made me a wonderful person with insight and compassion on those who are cast aside from the general public. Gay-ness is not something that can be fixed, simply because, there is nothing to fix! I know that God loves me just the way I am, and I do not need to to try to conform to what others on earth want me to be. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11814495288142840602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5401055091892091482.post-87813011630813949442015-08-20T21:27:18.561-07:002015-08-20T21:27:18.561-07:00Trev, what you are experiencing is auto-response, ...Trev, what you are experiencing is auto-response, which happens after many years of doing something, sort of like a habit, which is difficult to break. I don't think that folks who are disfellowshipped should be forced not to raise hands to support someone or say thanks. Would Jesus Christ want you to not Honor Him as Savior and Lord just because you were found to be bad enough to be disfellowshpped? Actually, I have been a member of the LDS Church for 44 years, a convert when I was 28. In all those years, I have always felt that such actions were unChrist-Like. I follow the Rules Christ set up in the time he was confronted by the pharisetic mob wishing to stone the harlot; what did he do? He stooped and wrote with his finger in the sand... which leaves nearly 2000 years of speculation open to what he was doing in the sand; I think the most accepted view of this, was that he was writing the names of all those in the mob who did the nasty dance with her. And it goes along with what the Lord told them, "Let he who is without sin (perhaps the rest of this translation into English was changed by the so-called scholars of the 3rd Century - at the counsel of Nicaea, who followed the Emperor Constantine's wishes to alter some passages to be more acceptable by those pagan living in Rome at the time? Could the real rendition of that scripture be stated this way, "Let him who is has not sinned with the woman, throw the first stone at her" ?? My point in all this is, that not one of us is spotless, and without sin, and worthy of Salvation, but because of the Atonement, which Christ fulfilled, all men can be saved if they declare faith in Jesus Christ. I bet you haven't given up on Jesus Christ, and hence, can raise your right hand to the square, and Sustain Him, or any other of His servants. There has to be some review on such a rule established by the Church Leadership. I pray that the Lord Himself will make it clear enough to all of us, one day very soon, that none of His children are unworthy of His Sacrifice. This I do believe, and I still sustain all our leaders, because I know that they are called of God, as was Aaron. I am not a perfect man and no one else of us is, but what we need to do, is do our very best to follow the Gospel Plan of Happiness that Heavenly Father has set up for all of us; you know the Drill; repent of your sins, then do not return to them. <br />If a person is Gay, that is not the right term; for I know no true person who is gay, following the gay lifestyle. Father set the Rules, if we wish to live in the Celestial Kingdom, the natural man desires must be subdued and abandoned. That that all mankind can do, it may be a difficult road to follwoing, but hey, 70+ years isn't a long time to live with the challenge, when thinking of how long Eternity is, and that if we are sick, or mamed, or have many others challengs, including Same Gender Attractions, it is something Jesus Christ can fix. Read Proverbs 3:5-8, and I'll quote it here, so that others can read it without trying to find it in their Bible, 5 "Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. 7 Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil. 8 It shall be health to thy navel, and marrow to thy bones." <br /><br />Jacob Shimron,<br />Winchester, TN USA<br /><br />Jacob Shimronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07813590435595767572noreply@blogger.com