October 30, 2009
To Tell or Not To Tell
Gosh, another dilemma.
I promise Im not a drama freak.
SO, I am currently looking at apartments with a friend of mine, (yes he is very attractive, but that is beside the point).
His favorite topic of discussion is..... Girls. Now since I have a small attraction to girls I can carry on a conversation for so long. Now he is trying to get me to date girls, and I am running out of steam with the excuses.
I have told him I'm not in a rush, I ask girls out when I am attracted to them, I find a very small percentage of girls attractive and so forth, which is all true. Yet he remains persistent.
It has been coming to a head this past week, and almost boiled over last night. I texted several of you and asked, "should I just tell him and risk him backing out of the apartment?"
I was almost to the point of saying, "you wanna know the real reason...?" But I didn't.
I have dropped several hints along the path. "Dude, I have many gay friends." "You don't like gay people do you?" "What if I don't like girls?" Followed by joking laughter.
He has even said in the past, "You just dont like girls do you?" To which I replied with only laughing. Thats enough for him to get the picture, right?
WRONG, he still persists.
I worry If I tell him, he wont want to be roommates and then I'm stuck with no housing....
What do you suggest?